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For instance, in neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam’s (2012), the authors tell us that in their exhaustive web explorations they discovered that, regarding heterosexual interest on English language search engines, cuckold was second only to the category youth as the most looked-up topic. And in his provocative article, the social psychologist Justin Lehmiller also alludes to trends revealing the surge of interest in cuckold scenarios, pointing out that even a cursory search on Amazon will turn up hundreds of books on such erotica and that the internet, too, resoundingly echoes this “huge demand” for graphic depictions of such sex. In particular, Xtube and PornHub are singled out as responding to this ever-growing desire in men to “play out” in their heads this prevalent (but typically private) fantasy. Like so many other authors, Ley agrees that wife-sharing fantasies are quite common. In fact, in some respects, they’re so prevalent as to be almost normative. This should be a great comfort to multitudes of men who in message boards all over the internet repeatedly ask whether these secret desires mean that they’re deviant—that there’s something essentially wrong with them.
Confused or embarrassed by such proclivities, they frequently wish they weren’t so turned on by the idea of being cuckolded. Routinely, however, when sex therapists respond to these worrisome anxieties, they hasten to assure them that, no, rarely are such fantasies anything to be disturbed about—while at the same time proposing any number of explanations as to what, innocently, may be driving their unorthodox imaginings. One last caveat here. Although I’ll be taking my cue from David Ley in elucidating the various motivating factors in a man’s fantasizing his wife—or, though far less often, his girlfriend—as engaging in sex with another man, I won’t also be considering, as does Ley, those instances where the imagined scenario actually takes place. My sole concern here is examining what motivates these illicit fantasies.
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And I hardly need to add here that in virtually every case, these imaginings are watched, read about, or pictorially viewed during the act of solo sex (i.e., ). Nonetheless, I might note that many experts writing on the subject of cuckold sex have observed that its reality (including its many variations—not just “watching in” or joining a threesome, but group and orgy sex centering on one’s partner as well) generally doesn’t begin to live up to the fantasy. Too many other emotions (i.e., other than pure lust) are likely to interfere with its enticement—like, shame, and resentment. After all, contrived fantasies are perfectly orchestrated, or tailor-made, to optimally arouse one’s libido. Real-life threesomes—really, what I’d call three- (not two-) dimensional sex, where unwelcome sights, smells, and unanticipated emotional complexities intrude—have a way of compromising what, in one’s imagination, was so thrilling. Of course, this isn’t always the case, but if it’s to be attempted, its associated risks definitely need to be evaluated beforehand.
Anyhow, let’s look at the various explanations that can help us better understand the dynamics of this popular (though “unauthorized”) sexual fantasy. It’s not yet so common as to be commonplace. But it does seem to be moving in that direction.My Wife Is a Hottie!Ley hypothesizes that men currently live in a “pornified culture,” so that their sexual appetites can hardly help but be influenced by the lustful “realities” they encounter on the Web. As a result of repeated exposure to the seductive exaggerations of Internet sex, why wouldn’t their erotic fantasies begin to include images of their wife’s being ecstatically “done” by some powerful, oversexed stud (with whom they conveniently identify!)? It only makes (erotic) sense that if we’re now subject to a porn-centric culture, many men—especially young men, whose sex drive is so intense that they have difficulty distinguishing between real love and ravenous lust—would be exceptionally turned on by fantasizing their partner as an enticingly provocative porn star, unrestrainedly exhibiting the wildest excitement in expressing her rawest, most provocative. And with a super-stud aggressively thrusting his oversized penis into whatever orifice she has to offer him. After all, what would be so abnormal about a man’s being markedly turned on by picturing his partner as really, really hot and being feverishly lusted after by other virile males (possibly even more virile than himself)?
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Unquestionably, there’s a great deal of ego involvement here. For the idea of sharing his highly desirable, “temptress” wife (often made much more alluring through his imaginings than might actually be the case) enables him to puff up with pride that, finally, he’s the one that retains ultimate “ownership” of her. Chauvinistic as it may be, what could possibly boost a man’s level and excitement more than indulging in such a narcissistically exhilarating fantasy? It Turns Me On to See My Wife Turned On—and the More, the Better!Closely tied to a man’s gratification in imagining his wife’s asserting full, unmitigated license to “let loose” her most daring eroticism with another male is his thrill in fantasizing her ooh’ing and ah’ing at the libidinous thrill of it all. Many men freely admit that in their lovemaking, getting their wives aroused through extended foreplay is every bit as exciting as their getting aroused themselves. And this may be a lot more descriptive of men in their 30s, 40s, and beyond than in those whose ' itch' is so strong that they feel compelled to complete the act as soon as possible. A man’s vicariously being turned on by vividly picturing the inordinate pleasure his partner is experiencing by displaying her own most primitive sexual impulses and being forcefully 'taken' by another male might be understood as a kind of “surrogate sexing.” Additionally, the graphic portrayal of such unrestrained sensuality reflects a man’s most animalistic instincts.
This is a fantasy depicting an id unchained, liberated from the ever-moderating, ever self-censoring, super-ego—which, by definition, is obliged to rein it in. So when an otherwise well-controlled heterosexual male dares to visually create his wife’s violating her marital vows, and possibly his even encouraging her to do so, he’s playing a vital role in what we might call a “double transgression” of society’s norms.
Voluntarily fantasizing himself as a cuckold, yet fully in charge of his cuckoldry, his “forbidden fantasies” may be particularly gratifying. For they break free of all boundaries, to reach what we might call the “thrilling, pure bliss of id.”. What Could Be More Arousing Than What Society Frowns Upon—or Is Taboo?!Elaborating on the above, here we’re focusing on the magnetic appeal of the outrageous. Since, traditionally, a cuckold is someone to be looked down upon, or made fun of, why would a man’s imagining his wife’s him—or his actually offering her to another male—be anything that could sexually excite him? But once again, we need to consider that anyone “composing” such a fantasy (however scandalous or shocking) is nonetheless exerting a kind of mastery over it—consciously choosing to dramatize a scenario that, in his mind’s eye, is tantalizing. (And in this respect, see on why many women deliberately choose to turn themselves on through conjuring up titillatingly tailored scenes of being raped.). It’s essential to grasp that what might be humiliating about imagining one’s wife having sex with another male is, in its idealized formulation, transformed into something not humiliating at all but engrossingly erotic.
Not to say that there isn’t a certain masochism in all this. And many writers have linked cuckold fantasies to this well-known aberration. Still, such fantasies can, however paradoxically, be empowering for the fantasizer—even as they comprise a culturally shameful theme.
This is not the place to psychoanalyze why conjuring up something physically or emotionally painful or degrading could for some males be a tremendous turn-on. But suffice it to say that, given a man’s, upbringing, and overall background, such imaginings can in fact offer him sexual gratification—and release. If I Picture My Wife With Another Guy, I Can Act Out My Suppressed Bisexual ImpulsesWriting about his sexually-oriented interviews with men, Ley claims that more than half admitted that their bisexuality played a role in their desire for their wife to have sex with another male. As I’ve already stated, this post is not about those men who turn their fantasies into reality but about the fantasies themselves.
So what needs to be looked at here is whether such imagined scenarios end up focusing on two men pleasuring the woman, or whether it comprises a “bait and switch” maneuver in which the fantasizer perceives himself as the principal sex object—or whether he’s viewing himself, proactively, as turning on the other male. For whatever about the fantasy is most arousing for him is what defines its sexual meaning and motive. Is he turned on by the woman’s heightened sensual pleasure. Or, frankly, his own? I Can Best Cope with My Fears of Being Cuckolded by “Preparing” for It.The hypothesis of cuckold fantasies as deriving principally from a man’s fear of same—formally introduced into the literature by —has not, up till now, been convincingly supported by research.
So though I’m including it as one possible explanation for the phenomenon, it doesn’t warrant much elaboration here. Doubtless, however, the notion of managing one’s anxieties about being sexually betrayed through eroticizing them is an interesting concept. And, in rare cases, I’ve no doubt it's relevant to explore.
DegradationThankfully, the most distasteful of threesome imaginings is, according to the studies I’ve inspected, not among the most popular. But, as Ley puts it, “Sadly, I saw some couples where the husband’s encouragement of the wife’s having sex with other men was about degrading her.” Obviously, to the degree that a man can sexually “get off” by picturing his partner not as strong or liberated in her sexual expression but as merely some sort of cheap whore, such a debasing attitude must be seen as abhorrent.
Nonetheless, just as a man’s vengeful fantasies of his wife’s being raped suggests his sexualizing angry, violent feelings toward her, so can his conjuring up images of her “giving” herself away to others reduce her to nothing more than a slut. Although I was tempted to leave out this final explanation—for there’s no questioning its repugnance—I decided that, for the sake of comprehensiveness, I needed briefly to include it.
Still, most of the motivating factors for these common male fantasies may be viewed as celebrating a woman’s sexuality (and probably a man’s own as well!). They may not be particularly laudable, but they do warrant being seen as normal.
Besides, in and of themselves, they don’t really harm the partner—though men should take care not to share such imaginings if doing so might arouse their mate’s fears and insecurities. It was called 'Soul Fucked.' The white husband wantedto see his wife engaging in sex with black men.
Manyinvited black men to do so.It's not so novel anymore. It's not a taboo becauseever increasing interracial relationships and marriagesare occurring.The new chic thing is incest porn. There are places wheremother/son exhabitions take place.Of course, there's no telling if these are real mothers andsons. Mother/son incest is intreging because the son get'sto return from where he emerged, and theortically, a soncould conceive a child with his mother, if he is youngenough. One of the primary reasons and turns on for a male to see another male with their wife is the idea that she would ENJOY sex even MORE with a better lover.and often these husbands are talking about a LOVER with a.Larger penis.
that can really give her that Full feeling where there is a constant pleasurable pressure against the nerve endings in her vagina and makes her orgasm over and over instead of maybe with his smaller.less girthy member. One of the primary reasons and turns on for a male to see another male with their wife is the idea that she would ENJOY sex even MORE with a better lover.and often these husbands are talking about a LOVER with a.Larger penis. that can really give her that Full feeling where there is a constant pleasurable pressure against the nerve endings in her vagina and makes her orgasm over and over instead of maybe with his smaller.less girthy member. Anonymous wrote:I am a cuckold husband, very well educated with a PhD and own businesses and love being humiliated by my gorgeous wife who understands my needs and desires and she enjoys sex with bulls we both chooseYour name, ‘Arab Husband’ would suggest that you are an Arab cuckold. Does your wife cuckold you by going with other Arabs, or indeed with studs from other ‘backgrounds’?I suppose there could be a similarity, in that I’m a mixed race cuckold (Indian & white English), & my white wife cuckolds me with a white stud; indeed with a very blond stud. What I find specially humiliating is the fact that my wife is being beautifully pleasured by someone who LOOKS, & IS, sooo different from me. And though you may say that the lovers’ looks are similar (both white), my wife is a brunette, & her lover very blond, so there IS a lovely contrast there as well.I believe this is called INTRA racial cuckoldry (as against INTER racial cuckoldry); the former where there is an inter racial marriage (mine), but where the wife takes a lover belonging to her own race.Any other Intra racial cuckolds on these pages?.
Anonymous wrote:If there's any truth to the number of men fantasizing about something which not long ago was considered emasculating, and frankly still is emasculating, then Feminists have succeeded in neutering a plurality of men.Yes, I believe that the emasculation of the husband—-indeed, his humiliation, is a prime motive for the incidence of cuckoldry. Humiliation, not just by the wife’s lover, but by the wife also. The former, I think due to the fact that the lover is always sexually superior to the husband (maybe superior in EVERY way!), & thenlovernremindsmthemhusband of this fact. The latter, the wife, not just reminding her husband of his inferiority, but also making a powerful statement of the incidence of ‘woman power’Anyone agree?. The same goes for men.I have always enjoyed having girlfriends on the side.My wife has accepted this and now we have threesomes.
Having a new girl completely revitalizes me.But we BOTH enjoy the girls.I don’t get these guys that like it one sided. Watching some slobs bang your wife while you get nothing just sounds like some kind of low-self esteem need to be degraded.A new girl is 1000% better than Viagra.I also agree with an above comment: I see way more girl-on-girl than the gangbang stuff. Wrote:I don’t get these guys that like it one sided. Watching some slobs bang your wife while you get nothing just sounds like some kind of low-self esteem need to be degraded.What you're not getting is that it's role played, not real. BDSM is all about role playing being degraded, not actually being degraded against your will. As they often say, the bottom (the subsurvient party) is actually in charge.Lots of people enjoy the power play that's involved in things like BDSM.
You seem to be suggesting that anybody who would play the submissive role in any power play is merely someone who has 'some kind of low-self esteem need to be degraded'. So you really mean that as long as we had only healthy people with self-esteem, then everybody would only want to play the dominant role in BDSM, and there would be nobody to play the submissive role.It's important understand the difference between reality and role play, probably the most essential aspect of the topic discussed here. I've always seen it that way. For me this happened early in life and is largely over now.
I started to fantasize about it when I was maybe 17 and I had a girlfriend that was open to it. I never forced or talked her into it and she would even ask me if it was OK to approach someone. We always kept it among extended friends, not strangers or anyone to close. We loved and respected each other and she was OK with allowing other women to be included as well. We mutually stopped in our 20's and got married and had a couple of experiments in our 30's.
What differed in our experience compared to what I'm reading from most is that we only did it maybe 8 or 10 times, we always did it together, and only once did it include intercourse. It never became a lifestyle and I really don't think of myself as a Cuckold. Lori,Perhaps but if you ask me it 'speaks' more to his need to see you with other men.You can be confident all you want, and then egos easily from outside parties can get involved. Then all of this sudden it's not 'fun and games' and 'just' roleplay, and then here comes unproblems which many times just aren't worth it.Not only that there are some who believe the body and ones sexuality is sacred and not meant to be whored about loosely goosey especially when you are already with a person you love. But women didn't do the whole monogamy because of love for their mate or because she didn't want to be a s l u t. Women did it because the offspring was more favoured with the male they made them with.
Another male would have less likely taken care of offaring that weren't his own and would even compete against any male son the woman would have. It also allowed women to form communities and ensure the kids were protected and safe. A lot of this is what is being lost now at days, right now we are living a huge social experiment and don't know what are going to be the consequences.
'.the authors tell us that in their exhaustive Web explorations they discovered that, regarding heterosexual interest on English language search engines, cuckold porn was second only to the category Youth as the most looked-up topic'This quote from the opening section strikes me as particularly odd for two reasons: first, there is no expanding on this point in terms of precisely how many men (percentage wise or in absolute terms) were looking this kind of porn up. I would think that such figures would feature prominently in a piece talking about how common it is relative to other search terms, making the absence of actual numbers a rather large oversight.Second, and perhaps more importantly, it sounds at odds with all the data I've seen from other sources. Perhaps Pornhub is not representative as to what kind of porn people are looking for, but cuckold porn doesn't even crack their top 20 list of terms or categories; a similar absence is evident on PornMD.
I think that alone should make one skeptical of the claim that this type of porn is as popular as it is claimed to be here. My theory is that men experience their sexuality in relation to other men, not women.
Women are just the conduit through which they prove relate to each other, jostle for position and prove their manhood. This explains why men think a guy is an alpha if he easily attracts women and a beta if he doesn't. It explains gang bangs, where men get to have sex with each other vicariously through a woman in order to prove themselves one of the pack. It explains homo-eroticism, where men bond with each other over pornography, strippers and prostitutes. I think a man who likes to watch or fantasize about his wife with another man is obviously a beta who is submitting to his alpha superior. He's just showing his belly to his bro. Wrote:My theory is that men experience their sexuality in relation to other men, not women.I don't think your theory is generally shared, though I'm sure it's true in some cases.
Men differ quite a bit in their fantasies and reasons for wanting sex.Though some men bond over porn, many men watch it alone, and they're free to secretly watch an endless amount of male gay porn. Why bother with straight porn in secret if your theory is true?
Not sure why you think women are an essential part of 'homo-eroticism'. There are plenty of gay men who are smart enough to realize they like other men only, and don't try to involve women in some sort of complicated switcheroo and self deception and denial.The fact is, there are plenty of men who are interested only in women, and enjoy the company of other men with no homo-erotic angle at all. Your observation makes little sense given its logical conclusion that men who did not have any homo-erotic desires would ONLY watch porn alone, would only watch lesbian porn which featured no men, would never go to a stripper club simply because there are men in the audience, and would never go to prostitutes!?I think you need to refine your theory. Obviously not all men. Just a hell of a lot of them (I'm talking about straight men, not homosexuals who obviously have a different orientation).
Where do you think 'bros before hos' comes from? Where do you think the term 'pussy whipped' comes form?
The ridiculing and social shaming of men who refuse to go to the strip club or who are against prostitution and porn? You don't have to watch pornography with other men to feel a sense of bonding with men over it.
You don't have to watch gay porn to experience the homo-eroticism of male bonding. Of course with everything there are exceptions, but culturally this is definitely a thing.
Lauder family Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images. The US may not have any, but it does have rich families with in the billions. These have accumulated their fortunes in vastly different ways, from publishing and cosmetics to retail and hotels. Keep reading to see the top 28 richest families in the US, ranked by net worth, starting at $10 billion.America may not be home to any, but that doesn’t mean some families haven’t created their own sort of empire.In fact, the United States has quite a few billionaire clans who accumulated their fortunes in vastly different ways.
There are the publishing powerhouses that built the Hearst and Newhouse family fortunes; a cosmetics giant, which laid the foundation for the Lauder family fortune; and the families that created their wealth out of household names, like for the Waltons and Hyatt Hotels for the Pritzkers.But not all of America’s richest families began as — some were also savvy investors.Below, meet the richest families in the US, ranked from lowest net worth to highest net worth, starting at $10 billion. Rankings were determined by the most up-to-date estimated net worths available from Forbes and Bloomberg as well as the left-leaning Institute for Policy Studies‘, which looked at 15 dynastically wealthy families from the Forbes 400 list. The 28 richest American families, ranked slides28 Bilder Open slideshow.
The Gallo familyNet worth:Source of wealth: E & J Gallo WineryThe Gallo family fortune is derived from a few avenues. Brothers Ernest and Julio Gallo founded the world’s largest winemaker in Modesto, California. Their other brother, Joseph, assisted with the family business until he opened his first dairy and sold cheese as „Joseph Gallow Cheese.“ His children currently run Joseph Farms, while the descendants of Ernest and Julio run, which generates estimated annual revenues of $3.8 billion. The company sells more than wine these days, having added liquor to the list.Gina Gallo and her husband Jean-Charles Boisset.
The Mellon familyNet worth:Source of wealth: Mellon BankThe Mellon family fortune originated when Thomas Mellon invested in coal and real estate in the 1860s — he was so successful he used the investment money to found. He left his fortune to his children to grow. Between his direct descendants and future generations, they did just that, investing in companies that later became and Gulf Oil (now Chevron) and owning companies in media and the railroad industry.Matthew Mellon was the face of the family until his untimely death in April 2018.Andy Kropa/AP Images. The Sackler familyNet worth:Source of wealth: Purdue PharmaThe Sackler brothers — Arthur, Mortimer, and Raymond — founded in the 1950s. The business skyrocketed when it began selling OxyContin in 1995. By 2002, Purdue was generating $1.6 billion worth of the painkiller.The company has spent hundreds of millions settling various lawsuits over mis-branding OxyContin and generates $3 billion in annual sales today.
The Sackler family still completely owns the company and the fortune is shared among some 20 family members.Monica Schipper/Getty Images. The Goldman familyNet worth:Source of wealth: Solil ManagementThe Goldman family’s wealth comes from real estate — they own 400-plus properties in New York City, including a 17% stake in the World Trade Center developments. Sol Goldman began when he began buying foreclosed properties at bargain prices in the 1950s.Today, his daughter Jane Goldman, runs the company.
She and her siblings own 25% of the company, with assets worth an estimated $12 billion. Sol’s nephew Lloyd Goldman runs the family’s real estate firm, BLDG Management, which has another 17% stake in the World Trade Center.Sirinyim/Shutterstock.
The Busch familyNet worth:Source of wealth: Anheuser-BuschThe Busch family fortune’s roots in beer date back to 1876 when Adolphus Busch created what is now known today as. While the company passed through each family generation, an estimated 25% of the business was sold between 1989 and 2008, and it was fully bought out for $52 billion in 2008.Part of the family launched back into the business with William K Busch Brewing. Roughly 30 members of the family split the fortune.Paul A. Hebert/Getty Images. The SC Johnson familyNet worth:Source of wealth: SC JohnsonThe Johnson family is behind, which produces cleaning products such as Pledge, Glade, and Windex. By its namesake in 1882 and was eventually taken over by son Herbert Fisk Johnson.
Herbert died in 1928 without a will, and the family reportedly feuded over the inheritance until it was eventually divided between his two children, Herbert Fisk Jr. And Henrietta Johnson Louis.
Fifth-generation Herbert Fisk Johnson III acts as the current CEO and chairman of the company.Theo Wargo/Getty Images. The Pritzker familyNet worth:Source of wealth: Hyatt HotelsA.N.
Pritzker and sons Jay, Donald, and Robert created the family’s wealth by founding the and investing in holdings, such as Marmon Group. Today, is split among 13 family members, 11 of whom are billionaires. They reportedly spent much of the 2000’s arguing over trusts, ultimately dividing up the fortune at the end.Members of the Pritzker family have also been involved in politics.
Penny Pritzker, Donald’s daughter, is the former US Secretary of Commerce. Her brother, J.B. Pritzker was the national co-chairman of Hillary Clinton’s 2008 presidential campaign and the Democratic candidate in the 2018 Illinois gubernatorial election.Pool/Getty Images.
The Koch familyNet worth:Source of wealth: Koch IndustriesBrothers Charles and David Koch expanded their father’s oil refinery firm into conglomerate after their other brothers, Frederick and William, left the business following a failed takeover. Today, generates roughly $100 billion in revenue annually.David Koch, who stepped down from a leadership position in the company in 2018, has pledged to contribute more than, hospitals, education, and cultural institutions through the David H. Koch Charitable Foundation. Both brothers some of the biggest summer movies of 2017, including „Wonder Woman.“Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images.